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By Mikel Ross

In case you haven't noticed, women have a different perspective when it comes to relationships. It's been this way for centuries. Since the beginning of time, understanding a women's perspective regarding relationships has been a daunting task. For many men it is an unsolvable puzzle.

Men need to understand that women think differently when it comes to relationships. They are much more intuitive then men. They tend to come to understand problems and situations all at once. They take a broad perspective on things, which makes them prone to becoming overwhelmed at times. Men tend to focus on one problem at a time or a limited number of problems. They are also able to separate themselves from problems and minimize the complexities that may exist.

Women in relationships tend to be more sensitive then their male counterparts. This has a physiological basis. It has been noted that women have an enhanced physical alarm response to danger or threats. They tend to be more aware of non-verbal cues as well. That's why you can say something to your girlfriend, and three days later she asks you, "What did you mean when you said..." This is because women are hypersensitive to your words and actions.

Women in relationships tend to be more focused on where the relationship is going. This is natural for them, as it is in a women's biological make-up to want to settle down. Even if a woman says the opposite, her biological clock is always ticking. This causes her to be much more attached emotionally to her man. There are many examples in the animal kingdom where the female relies on the male for protection throughout her life. She, in turn, bears and raises the children. That doesn't mean that your girlfriend is thinking about children. It simply means she's more likely to want to be reassured that you are investing in her and only her.

This dynamic has changed in our modern world. No longer are women reliant on men for protection. The days of the stay-at-home mom have all but come to an end. Women now work full-time and pay their own bills. This results in women being much more independent in relationships. This isn't a bad thing. For instance, it is more acceptable now more than ever to "go Dutch" or even have her pay for your meal. Think about this the next time you are heading out for a dinner date!

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By Mikel Ross

There are many times throughout a relationship where one of you may consider ending it. Maybe you've been fighting a lot or maybe your personalities have begun to clash. Maybe she can't seem to quit complaining about you watching the football games you o so love. Whatever the reason may be, you are considering breaking up with her. However, before you do, you may want to ask yourself these questions in order to find out how you really feel.

• Have you grown apart?

Sometimes people change over the course of a relationship. People develop different hobbies and different ideas. Maybe she's going to a different school in the fall and you've begun to distance yourself because you know you won't see her often enough. If the relationship is worth saving then these things are issues that you can address with her.

• Has she broken your trust?

Has she cheated on you or lied to you? Has she done something that she knew you didn't approve of that has caused you to question her character? If so, you have to ask yourself if you can forgive her. If you can, then great. If not, then it's time to move on.

• Are you bored?

Have you become less interested in her or has your eye begun to wander? Do you wonder what it would be like to be single? If yes, then you should probably end the relationship before you end up hurting her.

• Are you worried what your friends think?

Sometimes we place too much importance on what other people think. If you are the kind of guy that determines his relationships based on the opinions of others, then stop! You need to understand that she's not dating your friends-she's dating you!

• Do your parents like/dislike her?

Sometimes the opinions of our family can weigh heavily on our decisions. When it comes to breaking up with somebody, however, you have to disregard what they think. This is about two people: you and her. Even if your parents love her and think she is the perfect girl for you, it is important that you make this decision based on how YOU feel.

Breaking up with somebody can be one of the hardest things for a guy to do. Before you do it you must decide how you really feel. If you go through the list above then you will be much more equipped to make a decision either way.

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By Sun Yung

Let me ask you some questions.

What is the NUMBER ONE CHARACTERISTIC that all girls look for in a guy?

Do you think it's PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS? Such as, a full head of shiny thick hair, perfect sparkling-white teeth, a chiseled jaw line, tallness, muscles, etc

Do you think it's SUCCESS? Examples: a great job, owning a company, being famous, etc.
Do you think it's WHAT YOU HAVE? Examples: a cool car, a wardrobe full of designer clothes, a beautiful home, etc.

These things are what most men think of when they consider WHAT WOMEN WANT. It's a tricky question. Even Sigmund Freud, master of the human brain, died with the question on his lips: "What do women want?"

Well, guess what. It isn't ANY of the characteristics above. Sure, they might give you a slight advantage, but if you're lacking the KEY INGREDIENT, then NO amount of money, fame, or physical attractiveness is going to help.

The thing that attracts women MORE THAN ANYTHING to a man , regardless of whether he's tall or not, hot or not, buff or not, "successful" or not is CONFIDENCE.

SEXUAL confidence, to be precise.

I'm not talking about that feeling of smugness that you get when you think you know how to please women in the bedroom. When I say "sexual confidence", I mean the kind of confidence that a man has who can just attract women NATURALLY.

Clearly, to attract the kinds of women that you want to attract, you need to get your "inner game" sorted out. It is because once you place a high value on yourself (i.e. you know you're an attractive guy), women will follow your lead and echo that opinion of you.

Now, the question is how to get that inner game sorted out?

1. Get your head screwed on straight and FIGURE OUT THE REAL DEAL.

Get past the false belief that women are attracted to men who are tall/good looking/rich/famous etc. One great way of doing this is simply get out there in the world. Go take a seat in a busy part of town, or in the park, and look at the couples strolling around. See for yourself how many beautiful women are paired with average-looking guys.

To get over your limiting beliefs that "hot women go for hot men" (or famous, rich, etc.), YOU HAVE TO SEE IT FOR YOURSELF! So, become an avid people-watcher for an afternoon or two.

2. Realize that there is no quick fix for this issue.

I know this is a drag. But in all honesty, there is nothing you can do that will solve your confidence issues overnight, in a week, or in a month. Building strong self-confidence is an ONGOING EFFORT. It is something that you will need to work on CONSTANTLY in order to get this area of your life sorted out. So, you need to be prepared for this!

And, last of all, you need to give yourself something to be confident about. You need to make sure you can base your self-confidence on something, because otherwise it's just going to be load of hot air that's based on ZILCH.

And if your confidence rings hollow - if you're just FAKING IT - then it won't work. Because women can tell the difference between a guy who KNOWS he's confident and a guy who just WANTS TO BE confident.

So, brush up those people skills! Find out about small talk, how women like to be talked to, how to flirt successfully, and how to make people like you.

Finally, if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many girls interested in you then you're going to need a complete overhaul in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.

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By Michael Dat

So are you interested in dating younger women? Or are you dating a younger woman currently? Good for you! Dating younger women is definitely easier than dating someone older than you. She can be 10 years your junior but both of you are madly in love, so who cares? However, do not get too confident. Dating younger women can be quiet challenging. It is not only affected solely by the digits of your age.

Basically, women seems to be more attracted to older man in their thirties and beyond. Maybe it just natural for women to like older man, just like what you see happening in high schools where a high school girl dates a college guy. Well, it is actually not a natural phenomenon. There are reasons why women go for older men.

Basically, younger women often are attracted to traits like money, maturity, higher social status, leadership abilities, masculinity, confidence and composure.

Firstly, older men are generally more worldly then them. They most probably have discovered a lot more things about themselves and learnt numerous life lessons that younger men have not. They are more matured and hence they know what they are looking out for in women. Furthermore, they do not get overly sensitive with their feelings unlike boys who get jealous about silly things.

What does a woman look out for when they date an older man? Younger women want stability and security that the man has got to offer. It is not the money that they are after! It is the security! Emotionally, financially and physically.

Younger women love the attention. As such, by dating older man, they believe that they get to spend more time as a couple, unlike with the younger men, who parties like a rockstar and simply ignore their poor girlfriends who are stuck at home. Younger women loves the seriousness that older men posses. It is a hint to these women that these older men are serious about the relationship and not just there to have a good time.

Though at the same time, do not get all too tied down with seriousness. Tease her once in a while and goof around if you need too. Just remember not to take her too seriously. Opt for things that younger guys generally cannot afford! She will definitely boast about it to her girlfriends.

As fore mentioned, younger women loves men who are able to lead. Younger women have very little experience and thus they prefer to look for someone who is able to take them out and show the world to them. For example, volunteer to plan for a date and ask her for opinions, instead of thrusting to her to plan for everything. At the same time, do respect her opinions. Small gestures like pulling out chairs and walking on the outside curb can make a big impression on younger women.

Although both of you might grow to be comfortable with each other, she might still find you way too intimidating. Avoid behaving like a perverted old guy. It is ok to flirt but do not proceed further unless she drops hints of it. Otherwise, you might scare her away.

To wrap it up, give her space to stand on her own feet too. Do not be all too daddy-like or she might find that she is dating the wrong type of guy. Do not chase her around too much, but instead, let her come to you. Keep these simple tips in mind and you will be looking at a promising long lasting relationship!

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By Darnell Hughes

You have probably already noticed or experienced first hand that keeping a conversation going on a date can be like pulling teeth. It takes a little bit of give and take.

When you meet someone for the first time there are a few topics that you should avoid at all costs. It is a well known fact that discussing politics are religion on a first date should be avoided. Bringing up one of these topics could lead to a heated debate and cause the former conversation, now quarrel, to spiral out of control and ruin your chances of a second date.

Depending on where you live these topics may differ. For example, if you live in the Middle East where it is widely known that religion and spirituality are taken very seriously, you may want to avoid those topics when you meet someone new. If you are American there are also certain topics that should be avoided if you want to keep the conversation going. For example, when you first meet someone don't ask them where they were on September 11. Bringing up subjects that are sensitive in nature and evoke strong emotions is not a good segue to a further more intimate conversation.

Politics on the other hand, present a whole new set of issues. People often hold extreme views about which political party they support. Most people have been strong supporters of a particular party for the majority of their life. Often they support the same party that their parents did so they have a long history of supporting that particular party ingrained into their psyche. Any topic which lends itself to statements causing exclusion should be avoided on a date. Focus on what you have in common.

You can never now which topics are sensitive unless you know someone; here are some more that should be avoided to prevent strife and make sure your date goes smoothly.

� Abortion - There is no other topic that creates animosity
� Capital Punishment
� Euthanasia

A good rule of thumb is to keep to safe topics where a friendly debate will be perceived as an innocent deviation of opinions, such as family, friends, work, hobbies, interests and passions. It is imperative that you establish a certain comfort level with your date before you begin to discuss controversial issues. Once this is established, you can discuss these topics with out the fear or ruining your date and leaving on bad terms.

A recent study was conducted to quantify the difference between people who are successful in attracting a mate and those who aren't as fortunate. The results will astonish you! Researchers concluded that on average, men who study and implement techniques taught in dating guides are 74% more likely to get a second date compared to those who didn't.

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By Tu Tran

Are you sick and tired of reading all those fancy dating techniques. There's a new one every month. A decade ago there was no such thing as a dating advice industry for men. Before, there were very few books about how to date woman for guys and most of the advice was either straightforward or bad.

Look around the web now, there's plenty of good advice amongst a plethora of very bad information. If you're a guy who really wants to be successful in woman, you want to find or buy a product that gives you the best information out there with the least amount of work.

So let's look closely in how to be successful with women. Start with your thinking. You need to change your thinking. If you change your thinking, you will change your behavior around woman. And it's called learning. Think about what woman want out of a guy. What you think about what the woman want is usually what it is not. If you read what your sister or mom reads in their spare time, you will be surprised how different woman perceive dating. For example, if you read a Mill's & Boon romance novels, you discover how boring and repetitive it is to you. Conversely, woman will find it riveting and fascinated. It is important to know a woman needs and wants are not the same as what you need and want.

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By Pushpa Pal Singh

So do physical looks actually matter to girls? Do they really put much value on what a guy looks like? You see no matter how hard we might try to deny it but the very first impression we have of someone is the way they look. But this does not mean that it's only looks which actually matter to women. In fact there are several other things which when mastered would get you any female you desire anytime. It's actually more simple than you ever thought. Read on to discover how you can do it too and get the kind of girls you are looking for...

Looks don't matter that much- You see if you are not exceptionally good looking than it does not matter much what matters the most is how you carry yourself. You see you need to groom yourself well enough to look neat and tidy.

Confidence matters- What's your level of confidence right now? If you were asked how comfortable are you being the way you are what would be your answer? You see the problem isn't with the looks rather the way we feel about our looks. If you feel that you are not good enough that's instantly going to reflect on your personality and girls will not think highly about you only due to the fact that you don't value yourself either.

Try to feel attractive and you will be attractive- You see you always get what you really want in life. And if you feel you are not getting what you want out of life than you are concentrating and focusing on things you don't want rather than the things you do want out of life. You see when you feel attractive within you will be attractive outside no matter what you look like. It's your personality and character which matters more than what you really look like.

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